I loved your work so far, but I'm pretty disappointed about this one. Maybe I'm getting it wrong, but to me it sounds like "if a woman gets herself into that kind of situation it's her own fault". Not cool.
Urs, Thanks for your comment. I really think that I was trying to tell a story, not 100% true, but in a way telling something that happened to me in real life and show it in a fictional way that would highlight my point of view. The point of this story is not that if a horrible thing like this happens to a woman it's her fault, the point is that many unwanted situations in life can be avoided by being honest to yourself and stating loud and clearly whatever it is you want, think and or feel. Thanks again for your opinion.
thanks for your reply. I really appreciate to hear your point of view and I didn't want to invalidate your experience. What made me sad was the line "me lo merezco" and I agree with Nuris' comment on that. Of course it's good if a girl is outspoken, but even if she's not, she doesn't deserve to be raped. I can't say it any better than this manifesto: http://sexgenderbody.com/content/only-rapists-can-prevent-rape#ixzz1NClBVAtL
Anyway, I think the main reason I was so disappointed was that I like your other work so much and find it so inspiring. I hope this makes sense to you. Greetings from Germany,
A mi me gusto el gato, están malo, cruel y naturalmente simpático. Que engatusa....el final me recuerda a frida y sus autorretratos terribles y surrealistas. Preciosa!
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No, Paola. NO se lo merece.
http://reasoningwithdana.tumblr.com/post/6155197856
que buena estaaa!!
encantadora y cruel ayyya que dolor medio la pequeña complaciente...
Hi Paola,
I loved your work so far, but I'm pretty disappointed about this one. Maybe I'm getting it wrong, but to me it sounds like "if a woman gets herself into that kind of situation it's her own fault". Not cool.
Urs
¡Gracias por sus comentarios!
Urs,
Thanks for your comment.
I really think that I was trying to tell a story, not 100% true, but in a way telling something that happened to me in real life and show it in a fictional way that would highlight my point of view. The point of this story is not that if a horrible thing like this happens to a woman it's her fault, the point is that many unwanted situations in life can be avoided by being honest to yourself and stating loud and clearly whatever it is you want, think and or feel.
Thanks again for your opinion.
estoy totalmente de acuerdo!!!
es bueno gritar, patalear antes
Hey Paola,
thanks for your reply. I really appreciate to hear your point of view and I didn't want to invalidate your experience. What made me sad was the line "me lo merezco" and I agree with Nuris' comment on that. Of course it's good if a girl is outspoken, but even if she's not, she doesn't deserve to be raped. I can't say it any better than this manifesto: http://sexgenderbody.com/content/only-rapists-can-prevent-rape#ixzz1NClBVAtL
Anyway, I think the main reason I was so disappointed was that I like your other work so much and find it so inspiring. I hope this makes sense to you.
Greetings from Germany,
Urs(ula)
A mi me gusto el gato, están malo, cruel y naturalmente simpático. Que engatusa....el final me recuerda a frida y sus autorretratos terribles y surrealistas. Preciosa!
hey estaria muy bueno para difundirlo enserio, para las chicas de los coles que son mas vulnerables a caer con estos tipos.
es muy bueno. saludo
Maria
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